Lesbian dating or at least the part where you try to find a date, can be tough, and sometimes you just get sick of trying to pick up women in bars or nightclubs. That’s why a lot of it has moved online, where it’s much easier to get in contact with people who share your interests, and you don’t have to guess if the beautiful girl that’s been looking your way is looking for you to approach her, or wondering where you got that cute top.

On top of that, at least according to this study, LGBTQ people are almost twice as likely to be using an online dating website or app. That just means that your options multiply, and there’s more proverbial fish in the sea. So, to get right into it, here are 10 of the absolute best lesbian dating sites you can find on the internet:

Lesbian Personals


Right off the bat, let’s start with one of the biggest lesbian dating sites out there – Lesbian Personals. With millions of members and an advanced search engine, it’s much easier to find interesting matches and fun conversations no matter where you are. You can browse thousands of detailed profiles which are designed to help you find women who share your interests, and then instantaneously start chatting.

While on the subject of chatting, you can do it via messenger where you can just chat, or share photos and videos, but also communicate via video chat which is fully supported. If you want to be a part of a huge international lesbian community, this dating site is the right choice for you. You can also fine-tune it to find the matches that are closest to you, so if you travel a lot, or you’re just looking for a chat you’re in a different town, you can’t go wrong with Lesbian Personals.

Pink Cupid


Cupid Media is a huge name in the online dating world, and they own over 30 highly reputable dating sites that cater to specific niches. Pink Cupid is one of those sites, specifically tailored for women seeking other women. It’s suited both for bi-curious women who want to make contact and learn more about themselves and lesbians who already know what they want. What they want doesn’t necessarily have to be a relationship; there’s a bunch of users who would just like to make friends.

On the other hand, if you’re looking for a relationship, that’s covered as well. Find a friend or a soul mate – it’s all on the table with Pink Cupid. Lesbian dating has never been easier; with just a couple of clicks, you can find someone who shares your interests and start talking to them within minutes. The internet really makes the process of getting to know each other much simpler, and Pink Cupid is a prime example of this.



If you’re looking for that special someone to settle down with, and get out of the dating world, eHarmony is the place to go. Millions of single people looking for something real are on this site, and it might just be the perfect opportunity for you to find someone that’s looking for the same things in life as you. They are among the most trusted dating sites out there and claim to have helped over 2 million people find the love of their lives.

Apart from the matchmaking experience, which is state of the art, by the way, they offer access to numerous blogs and articles that deal with relationships in dating in general. On top of all that, they’ve recently added the option to go on a video date with someone you found on the website, which is a massive advantage in this day and age, where real meetups may be impossible.


Her is the first app on our list, and it is a fantastic lesbian dating app that lets you find queer people near you very quickly and through a user-friendly interface. With millions of users, it’s almost a guarantee that you’ll find someone in your area that fits into your idea of a person who you’d like to have on a perfect date. It’s available in both the iOS App store and on Google Play so that you can access it from any mobile device.

What really sets Her apart from a lot of the other dating apps and sites pointed at the LGBTQ community is that it lets you find queer events near you. This fantastic feature means that not only you won’t miss out on any fun happenings in your area, but it also gives you an excellent place for meeting someone new before moving on to dating if you hit it off.


Have you ever wished for an app that’s sort of like Tinder but better and specific for lesbian dating? If you have, let us introduce Zoe – a dating app that’s focused on finding matches for lesbian, queer, and bisexual women. It works much in the way the aforementioned app does; you swipe right if you like what you see and left if you don’t. If the people that you swiped right on also swipe right on you, you get a match, and can start chatting instantly.

The app itself is free, but there are paid features like a Premium membership that gives you the options to see who “liked” you, as well as some other cool additions. However, that is totally optional, and you can enjoy the main bulk of what the app has to offer completely free of charge. It’s very fast-paced, interactive, and lets you break the ice quite easily since you know that the other person already seems to like what they saw on your profile.

Elite Singles

Here we have one more site that’s pointed in the direction of helping you find long-lasting relationships. Elite Singles does exactly that, using their super-sophisticated matchmaking algorithm to help you find love. When it comes to lesbian dating sites that focus on finding that special someone, it’s one of the best-rated ones out there.

The way their algorithm works is that you’re presented with a handful of potential matches every day, based on your and their listed preferences. They say that most of their users are there to find a steady relationship and that they are quite serious about making that happen. The user pool is actually slightly older than your average lesbian dating app, so if that’s something you’re looking for, head right on over to Elite Singles to find the partner of your dreams. Also, if you’re not sure what exactly it is you want to put on your profile to find the best match possible, they offer some expert tips on their website, so you have that vital part of online dating covered as well.


A truly modern and ground-breaking lesbian dating app, Taimi offers its LGBTQ+ users a safe spot where they can connect and discuss their interests. It’s another swiping app, but it lets you customize your profile more and make actual posts so you can capture your personality better. The outstanding feature they offer is the option to create or follow groups that help you stay up to date on the news in the community and even events that might be going on near you.

It’s truly a safe place, and they do their best to keep Taimi a judgment-free and bullying-free zone, which is a huge cornerstone of any good dating app targeted at queer people. Other than that, the interface is very slick and user-friendly, so you’ll have no trouble connecting with the people suitable to your tastes. Take in all the advantages that the age of the internet has to offer, and find your perfect match with Taimi.


POF, standing for Plenty of Fish, is the first multi-platformer we have on the list, as you can join via the website or via the app, whatever your preference is. They advertise that they offer real connections with real people. With millions of users, it’s practically a guarantee that you’ll find someone that fits in with your idea of a valid partner you could see yourself forming a serious relationship with.

It offers plenty of ways to connect with your matches, including live streaming and video dates, which can be a great way to get to know someone before going out on a real-life date. The world of dating can be very tough sometimes, and recently, with a lot of places closed down due to the pandemic, it’s maybe better to learn all you can about your potential date before taking such steps. In any case, POF offers you access to millions of real people profiles who are also looking for that special someone, so head on over to their website to learn more if that’s something you could be interested in.


An app truly designed to enhance the lesbian dating experience, Wonder lets girls from all around the world form a community where they can feel safe and like they’re at home. It also enables you to meet new people, whether just as friends, or something more than that. With very detailed profiles, you can say everything you have about yourself and present the real you to the world.

Also, because the user profiles are so detailed, you have the option to look through them before engaging in conversation, both to make sure that you share the same interests and to get some ice-breakers for the chat. It’s available for all mobile devices, so you can take your matchmaking on the go and find lesbians near you wherever you go. Show off your uniqueness, and bask in the uniqueness of other girls on Wonder, a place where any lesbian can show their real opinions, preferences, and precisely what it is they’re looking for.


One of the newest additions to the world of lesbian dating apps, Lesly is a platform for women from all around the world, where they can find other women to, well, it depends on what they’re looking for.

It’s available for both iOS and Android, so you can take the fun with you wherever your next destination is. Since there’s a huge number of users on the platform, you can find dates any time for your current location, which is great if you travel around a lot. Don’t let the traveling stop your lesbian adventures, and use Lesly to find the girls to go on those adventures with.

In Conclusion

There you have it, 10 of the best apps and websites out there for lesbian dating. They range from spots where you can find chats and friends, to platforms that are dedicated to finding the love of your life. Whatever your preference is, there is an online service out there that’s perfectly suited to help you find what you’re looking for.

Most importantly, all of them put a lot of focus on creating a safe environment for queer people, which is priority number one when offering people chances of meeting online. Verified accounts and face ID are features you’ll see with a lot of titles from our list, and we’re glad it is so.

So, don’t let the current global predicament stop you from making new connections, even if they have to be online for now. Use all of the resources available to you to find the perfect girl and build a relationship with her.

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